Single in the City : Adventures in Urban Dating

{October 15, 2008}   Re-Thinking Size

I’ve had a bit of a debate going with myself regarding the size of my lover’s penis. The bigger the better? It’s how you use it? It’s all about girth?  Although these questions linger, I’ve come to the conclusion that it is really how you feel about your lover that matters, and quite often, makes up for the size of the damn thing! My current lover is not overly endowed but he has the drive of a rabbit and the stamina of a bull. He is passionate, spontaneous and, to an extent, giving. Have I had wild, crazy orgasms in his presence? Not yet – but that may have less to do with the size of his cock than the feelings I have just recently sorted out for him. Only time will tell. For me, sex, making love, fucking, shagging, and doing it are a joint venture between body and mind.  Without the permission of one, the other has no fun. Will a huge lob tilt the balance either way? Again, a question that will for the moment have to hang, no pun of course. What I do know for certain is that sex has been great fun without the great size.


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