Single in the City : Adventures in Urban Dating

{October 5, 2008}   The Hard Way

There may be 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover but finding the right time to do so isn’t as easy. On Friday night, I discovered how imperative the “when” is. After a week of thinking, talking and writing about it, I realized that there is no time like the present, especially when you know you absolutely must. Completely unprepared to have “the talk”, but as inept at concealing the thoughts my body language was apparently screaming, it didn’t take my tall Indian long to figure out what was going down. Dressed to kill for an evening out with lover and friends, I dropped the bomb. As the dust settled from the fallout, I realized that I had just done myself, and him, a big favour; there is nothing more important than being honest and forthright where matters of the heart are concerned.

Even if it’s hard.


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